Good points to ponder, thanks. I will have to ruminate on these ideas for a while, it seems a foreign concept to me. If we ever owned anything it was due to mom and dad, same if we got good grades or compliments on our looks or behavior, all due to mom and dad. Guess I thought their standoffish-ness and sometimes downright coldness was all on them, too. And I knew they were right when they made their little digs, compared us to each other, and found one lacking. Sis was pretty, I was smart. 40 years later I still believe I'm ugly and she's dumb.

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