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Originally Posted by stopdog
I do believe that by today's views, it could be considered abuse. I don't think it was but there are some things that some people could get charged up about.
But that is past the rejecting one's own mother as an infant or small child.
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this is speculation, but i think if your mom was the one who later went on to primarily do the corporeal punishment then you could have picked up on other cues as an infant that she wasn't a safe person and so you didn't want to bond with her. it would also explain why you have such a negative reaction to your female Ts.
whatever the case is, i tend to think there is always a reason why people act the way they do whether it is caused by nature or nurture or both. i don't buy that there are infants who are just terrible for no reason and popped out the womb that way.