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Old Sep 12, 2014, 09:22 PM
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For example, telling other people they know I am depressed, telling details about my mental health issues to other people (some of them I know, some of them I do not know). I must say that in our culture privacy is not valued very much, although it is changing now. But I must say also that I am very discreet and that I have said I don't like them to discuss about my health with other people. They do it anyway. I understand they do it anyway because here people open their mouths too much. Indeed, I have met back with some old friends that want to help but I am terrified by the level of details about their own friends they tell me in casual conversations. It is just an habit. I have very little interest in unknown people lives and I feel embarrassed listening to these comments. But then I think, I being too picky, all in all, these friends of mine want to be helpful. Also, they make insensitive comments or are patronizing sometimes. This is something common here but as I was in the US in the last ten years ( then I came back to my country ) I guess I am having a hard time adapting to these characteristics. Of course, some people are more sophisticated here.
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