I have learned to pick my battles. It's like driving in traffic and some guy cuts you off....Yes you can get really mad at them which does nothing to them but raises your blood pressure or you can crank up the music and just keep cruising. How do you know what was going on with the other driver...He might have been a heart doctor and he was racing to the hospital to save someones life, you never know. Did you ask when they were going to get more cakes in? You might have been able to wait an hour and pick one up and avoided being mad all day. I don't really fight or wallow much anymore. I am learning nothing is really that important. I like myself better not being that angry person.