Thank you so much for sharing, Skies - this is amazing as this also describes me to a 'T'! Isn't it strange how when you read something like this, certain behaviours suddenly make sense (how we relate to various situations). Thank you. I think I need to bring this up with T maybe - instead of just going around in circles. She says I didn't receive enough support when growing up and that now I am in need of support but she withdraws constantly saying she acknowledges that I want more but she can't give it. This is so painful. Thanks again for sharing. Xx