I would say work with you T about self worth and loving yourself first. People often come across as desperate to dates and not even know it. You just need self love and confidence.

Are there activities you can join in your area that would allow you to meet more women than just a dating site. Maybe an art class or cooking class ( women love a man that knows hows to cook )

I great place to meet women is a library or book store Im not kidding .

Or a coffee shop ,, There are usually loaded with single women that want to go out but no one to go with ,so coffee shop and a computer is a great way to pass the time. Notice the same one a few times walk by and mention you have see her before and would love to buy her a coffee or latte or what ever she likes.

Widen your search.

Good luck