Girl, I don't think it's you! I've got one of those too! I tell mine all the time he has "Peter Pan" syndrome! He lives in "never-never" land with no authority, no rules or boundaries to live by, no consequences & no responsibility! Avoidance is his way of resolving conflict (she's just mad, I'll leave til she gets over herself & everything will be fine) BS! HE'S entitled to do whatever he wants & I'M entitled to do whatever needs to be done!! I am reexamining my relationship too! What the Hell is wrong with these "men" now days? I'm fed up with them!