So, to answer your question, I have a very avoidant attachment with people at first. But once they get past that and I start to admit to feeling close to them, that's when it really becomes chaotic. I move from a distant and avoidant attachment to a disorganized and unpredictable attachment. I rapidly go from "I don't need you" to "please don't leave" back to "I don't want anything to do with you" back to "I am scared you hate me". It is chaotic, and overwhelming.[/QUOTE]

This last part is how I feel with my T