You think in terms of a line that goes from negative to positive and every woman, or, in your parlance, every ***, boob, etc., can be placed somewhere on that line. Then between any two women, or any two female assets, three relationships are possible:

- one is better
- the other is better
- they tie

This is not true in real life. Such line does not exist.

You are not the only person thinking in terms of that straight line - the pop culture around us does feed us such messages, i.e. "hot or not" website is an example.

But you are responsible for your own reaction to pop culture and ultimately for your standards.

I can tell you that I am not a "hot" woman but it does not bother me because I am sultry and gracious. Not everybody needs to be "hot". There is nothing wrong in fitting the textbook case of "hot" but you can still get plenty of male admiration if you are outside of that particular rubric.

Reread the OP. Very early on you "confronted" him. What is it that he did that entitled you to "confront" him?