Interesting how some people have fantasies of running into their Ts outside of therapy.

Personally, I would die. Sometimes I will be out and see a guy who looks like my T and flip out thinking it really is him.

I am obsessed with not having anything that might interfere with the uniqueness of the therapeutic situation, no matter how small. I am not ready, at this point, to admit that my T has an actual life outside of our sessions together. I come from the stance that my T is a blank slate-- and I wouldn't want anything to complicate that situation.