Any further thoughts on how to handle moving on? I am doing positive affirmations and that's helping. But the "me" time is killing me. I find myself obsessing over him. Awful!!! I have friends to keep me distracted but I still end up with some alone time.

Anyone else who has done this or helped others do this? Any ideas? Sometimes I keep picturing him getting married or whatever and it kills me. I know he doesn't t have everything I have like education and career but you always focus on what you don't have? Right?

On a side note, he does not have a job yet and he is already engaged... huh? Kinda scary in my book.