Thank you IrisBloom.

That is something I am going to share, and what happened to her (later on, I will). After reading, so many years on abuse, it made me believe how she became this kind of person. She was badly abused as a child, and experienced it in her teens years. She became very bitter, and didn't trust people, and was always so suspicious of them too. She wore "anger" as her protective armour so no one could hurt her again. One of her abusers was her alcoholic step-mother, and she was neglected by her alcohlic father, and abandoned and neglected by her mother.

Her step-mother, a raging abusive narcissistic alcoholic, is my father's sister. So I have similar eyes as her step-mother's.

Her father, drank a lot, ignored her, and didn't do anything to stop the abuse. He was the enabler.

Her mother, abandoned her at the age of 6, gave her up to her (estranged)father and his abusive wife. Never seen her again, until she was the age of 13 when she moved acrossed the country to live with her mother, and her new family. This made her bitterness and resentment, turn to hate towards her mother and her new family. She struggled to get along with them. Her and her mother fought, and she ended up moving back to where her father lived. Later on, she married my father at the age of 20. My father had her step-mother's eyes as well. So she took a lot of her anger out on him, to punish him, for what his sister did to her. My father felt guilty, so he just took it, and enabled it. Just like he allowed and enabled her to abuse me. My brother looks more like her, and the people she cares about. I looked more of my father's family, who she despises.