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Originally Posted by BrandNew
Nothing traumtic has happened for me to feel this way, i've never been bullied per se but I've been called ugly more than once in the past and have even had someone ask me out as a joke. I've never been the 'hot' girl that l the guys want and it hurts to hear that all his friends say how lucky one of thier friends is because they're girl is so hot, but my boyfriend gets nothing. My friends got all the attention, I was the "plain jane", the funny one.. so i've always had self-esteem issues but because i'm with someone who could do real damage to the way i think of myself, they're a lot worse.
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Sounds like this is the type of thinking that would push a partner away, intead of drawing them closer. Who's to say, these attractive women would want anything to do with an already unavailable man?
You don't seem secure about your relationship. Personally, I guess it's more than just the fear of a new woman. What brought this on? Is there something else, nagging at you, about him, and this is just part of the equation? Something other to focus on? Would appear there's an unmet need somewhere else in the relationship that you may not be fully aware of, due to limited life experiences, per se.
What else, could there be, that has you in a tizzy about hot women?