I did not mean to start a problem. i was asking because I was concerned but it obviously aroused many feelings in people. I was also posting to say that I am way not doing well with kiddos cancer and the whole bit. I expected a few smart remarks from people who had seen my jumble of letters. It was funny. (won't be if I can't get it fixed cheaply) I wish everyone peace and I am sorry that my post caused a very long and maybe heated thread.