I believe ChipperMonkey's post was more directed at the reaction, doyoutrustme, in reacting as if he was being immature for leaving like that wherein most situations if the roles were reversed, the guy would still be the jerk. It is not any one individual's fault but the perpetuation of it is a problem and needs to be noted. If I say "no," three times and then leave, the problem shouldn't be put on me being immature, I think walking away was a pretty good thing to do, maybe not in the way he did, but emotions can get the better of us in those situations, it's not childish. I'm not trying to start anything, either by the way, just clarifying what I believe is happening.
Cosmic Rose, I'm not chastising you but I feel like the question pretty much answered itself. He probably was either freaked out or upset. It would have freaked me out and if, like Hamster-Bamster said, verbal cues were ignored, there is nothing talking can do at that point and I would have up and left as well.
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