I think what it is, is if you have to struggle your but off to keep your girl happy and she only needs to look at another guy to wander, then it's time to let her go. She was never happy from the beginning. You are giving 95% and she only 5%.

It doesn't mean she's a bad girl, but she'll just be better suited with another man. Not necessarily a better man. Always remember - LIKE attracts LIKE. You might actually be TOO GOOD FOR HER. It might not seem like that, especially if she's like beautiful and soooo sexy, but that's the world's way of measuring the value of a person, and it's WRONG! I think we put some girls on too high a pedestal, some of them don't deserve the credit at all. I know it hurts when it happens (she's looking), but this is the ideal time to see into her mind. LOOK at the TYPE of guy she's eyeing. That speaks volumes about her. If he's the sexy, movie-star good-looking type, or the guy that just pulled up in the sports-car (a rich bastard), that tells you she's shallow (into only looks and money). Think back about how YOU met her too. What was the deal-clincher for her? I bet you it was your wallet or your "high cheekbones". You might not even think you're that rich or that good looking, women don't look at us the way we do, so you'll never know. Another thing, if she's that type - she'll get tired of him too! She'll probably want to come back again - you just say no.

And guys, don't be scared. If you need to break up with her, do it. If it's meant to be, she'll come back. It's then your decision as to take her back or not, depending on how many other men she's been with since then. If she really did feel she made a mistake, she would've maybe slept with another guy once, realized her mistake and has been without any man for a month or more, thinking about you the whole time. She is still the type that can have a chance. If she goes from you, and then sleeps with numerous other guys - she's a manipulative slut, and you've done yourself a massive favour actually.

But, to get back to my point, if you're giving 95% and she only 5%, then it's not working. Relationships should be easy, and it is with the right girl. As soon as it feels like hard work - it's not working. It means you're trying to convince her to love you. One look from another guy is enough for her. Get another girlfriend, it's not worth all the trouble to hold onto that one.

The right girl never looks around, she only sees you, and loves you. She has no reason to look, you are her most amazing man! When you find her, you'll think to yourself - why did I waste so much time with that other girl? This girl is so much better! You'll never look back. You'll know, because it will feel like you're not even trying and she loves you automatically. Be prepared to get random messages on your phone telling you how amazing a man you are and how much she loves you - and you to be totally perplexed as to what you've done to deserve it, you were just being you!

That's how it should be. These women you have to "keep happy" aren't worth it. Life's too short guys!!!