You can stay in this relationship if you are okay with words but not actions. The old saying, "Actions Speak Louder Than Words" are never truer than with this sort of person.
If you can live with being an accessory in someone else's life, an after thought, a block to be checked.
Can you find the strength Never to Really Matter, but to be all of the above and then less?
These are the "talk the talk" guys. The fact that you have actual feelings does not honestly occur to them, but they make sure you know they have feelings. These is the sort who are expert manipulators and will do it as long as you let them. But, sadly, when it stops working, they will be bewildered, not sure why their usual M. O. stops working.

Since you have not been with this person long enough to address it with him, and oh, by the way, it wouldn't matter if you were with him 2 years or 10, this is a message that will not be heard. There really are people who do not have empathy and it is this person.

I would have to agree that you are too valuable, have too much to give and way more to offer someone who is more compatible.
If you want to explore ways to discover who that might be, take every bit of psyco-babble you can stand, from the Meyers-Briggs personality test to astrology, and then Get Out!
As to your broken heart, it will heal. Time does heal enough to move forward. It is best (and I speak from experience) if you go cold turkey, cut off all contact, don't look back, and have a plan in place, a friend to call, a place to go, when you have those weak moments that you inevitably will have.
Sorry for the pain you are about to experience, but it Will Be Worth It if you learn how to recognize and never return to this sort of person.