Oh! That is different. I finally had to come up with a non-threatening response for my H. He needs to hear it is not his fault, and that I don't need him to "fix it" because he is one of those guys that needs to fix things.

I blame it on hormones or other stresses that he won't attach to, that is just me though, I need not to burden him.
He sees it, he gets it, but he can't fix it so it is best for me not to pull him into it to much.