Wow, good for you. You must feel so relieved and unburdened. This is one of the deth/birth moments, I think. Now the birth process begins. Question, now that she has the hot potato, will she wait for you to bring it up again? Relatively early on in my therapy I spilled my guts about a lot of stuff that had been triggered due to recent family events. Some of it we have not discussed since and I think T is waiting for me to mention it again. Anyway, good job!