sounds like you are tied up in a lot of drama. could advertising for a room mate possibly get you out of the house? that would solve a lot of the problems. you contributed to your stress by getting a new boyfriend, especially one who adds to the drama by creating conflict. why on earth would he post such things on facebook? it is better to be stable in ones own life before getting into a relationship. where can you go to find supports? do you have a therapist? if not, maybe now is the time to get one to gain some coping skills to help you manage your life. if you have one, maybe increase your sessions for the time being. maybe get into a group. get involved in some stressfree activiites that will take you out of the house. take a risk and talk to those other friends.