I have been with T for several years. He barely discloses anything, but sometimes, to use an example (he says) he tells me a personal story. Every time he does, I say "Oh, here we go", my heart sinks, and he tells me a lovely story about his life or family. I am very happy for him, but it is still hurtful. I would rather not be reminded how perfect his family is and that I am not part of it (really childish on my part).

I think he is fully aware he should not disclose, but sometimes I think he just can't help himself. He hears me talk about how wonderful my family is, and perhaps he needs to get out his share of pride about his family.

My T is human. We have seen each other long enough and have quite a good understanding of one another. Is it ok for him to reveal little bits and pieces of his life to me? I don't think he has any idea how painful it is or does he? Is he being a tad bit unprofessional when he does this or am I being a tad bit possessive?