I know you probably don't want to hear this, but you are still young, there is plenty of time. girls are attracted more to somebody with self confidence so work on that. my son is 25 and he has always been in the friend zone and ive never known anybody to question his sexuality.welcome to psych central. you will find we have several forums where you can post about your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome