Interesting talk about walking with the therapist behind ... I used to worry about that too years back when I started therapy, but now I got used to it and just enjoy it. I mean, I'm a woman and my therapist is a man and in this country it is considered bad manners for a man not to let a woman go into a room first or go first when the path is narrow etc. Sometimes my therapist made a visible effort to allow me to go first even if he was in front of me and the place was small. I actually think that's cute.