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Old Sep 14, 2014, 08:33 PM
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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster View Post
But he was trying to sleep. And, he had sex with Cosmic not a long time ago. think he was entitled to rest.
I concede on the point about respecting boundaries. At the same time, it doesn't sound like a guy who understood himself enough to, at some point say to Cosmic Rose,,
You know what? When I am falling asleep, I do not like to be disturbed. If you try to prevent me from sleeping by enticing me, I will leave the relationship.

Boundaries are only boundaries when clearly stated. Otherwise it's pent up resentment. Resentment destroys relationships.