I think I just need to vent, but I would welcome advice also.

I met this girl in high school. We instantly became best friends because the same girl who bullied me, bullied her. With her, I have had the confidence to break up with my abusive ex boyfriend and seek therapy for my mulitple problems. Because of her I am now with the love of my life. We seriously act like sisters and we were always together. Well now she moved into a big city for college. We are about 45 minutes away from each other. I try to keep in contact with her and when she is in town, I try to make plans. This was the 4th week that she said that she would be here for me and she stood me up. I try making things easier for her, planning activities that dont require money or less than $5. I offer to pick her up and drop her off. She will say she will think about it and then wont text or call me until the middle of the next week. She wont even pick up the phone when I call about it.

I dont know what to do. She told me that she would always be here for me, since my boyfriend is currently living out of the country and she is fully aware of all of my problems. But when it comes down to it, her new boyfriend is more important. I feel like this is tearing our friendship apart. I need her emotional support. My counselor told me I need someone like her to help me think things through. I need someone to depend on. I dont want to cut off the friendship, but I feel like it would be more beneficial to me to cut it off than keep trying to rescue a one sided friendship.