I've been told by some and read about others who feel that depression is a self-indulgent, lazy way to avoid responsibilities in life.

This couldn't be father from the truth! I would much rather be working at a job I love and exploring my passions, socializing with friends and family or job taking my dog on walks.

I feel very defensive about these accusations. If I had cancer or was in a car crash, i wouldn't be considered lazy, etc. I would be treated as a person who needs help and offered it. Meanwhile the loved ones in my life only see me isolating in bed and avoiding them. No wonder! They treat me like I'm worthless. I've tried to educate them on what depression is, nit I'm told I can just 'snap out of it' - things you've all heard before.

I'm 46, female, and in a low paying job after being laid off. I have loads of experience, an advanced degree and I'm further depressed by the job market. I'm seriously considering going back to school for an MBA. I feel like it would give me focus, and open up more career doors too.

Any thoughts on dealing with negative people as well as a midlife career change?

Thanks!