Thanks for the replies!

GAH! WE DIDN'T TALK ABOUT THE LIST!!!!!!!!!!! It was like he wanted to avoid that for now, and when I made reference to it and that I thought my worry about it had added to how I was feeling last week, he just nodded his head and changed tack in the conversation! siiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiigh! (now I have to dwell on it even more)

He did reassure me that I hadn't asked for too much support or taken up too much of his time over the last week. I think I believe him, I said I'd try anyway.

The appointment was ok. More a recap of what had happened last week(I was totally overwhelmed and sobbing, with lots going on) and he wanted to make sure that I acknowledged how well he thought I handled all the 'situations', despite how painful they were for me. He seemed to really want me to know "how proud I am of you". (made me very uncomfortable though)

I'm going to start another thread, as my T brought stuff up that has really confused me.