I don't have specific dating advice except that the club and drinking may not be the best place to find intimate love. I spent 15 years in the service industry(bar and restaurant). All the late nights I witnessed never really spawned true love.

I would suggest other areas to look for a truly good woman. Church or temple or whatever your faith may be, you could attend functions with those people. Look for a related singles group in your area. Just get out and join some activities for people in their early 20's. And honestly, think about the online dating sites, the quality ones, but be honest on your profile and pictures. You are appealing to some woman I promise, but misleading them in any way won't work, it will just turn them off. I'm not saying you would do that, just speaking from past experiences with friends and what not.

I'd say bottom line, don't try to look at every woman you meet as whether she's Mrs. Right or not, just introduce yourself and have a good conversation. Meet as many people as you can, when you aren't looking, that's when it's most likely to happen I think.

Best of luck to you.