Well I don't know herion myself personally its about the only thing I never touched.

Through 15ish thought to my mid 20s I had a serious addiction to most hard drugs all at once in a completely careless way.

I do understand people talking about meetings AA etc. But one thing I do remember is there was not a hope in hell I was ever going back then and I would hurt anyone no matter how much I loved them that pushed it on me.

The comment before along the lines of accelerating rock bottom to see if they come back up has some truth to it and for me is what happened.

I don't know you or your partner but though all of my experience with drugs I had someone like you by my side and totally innocent of the complete destruction I was causing you truly have a great heart to contemplate this. My wife today is that person and I am very lucky that she stuck with me. I am also drug free for about 4-5 years.

The main thing within this is you need to look after yourself first sometimes. No matter how much I love my wife and I truly do, the drugs took 1st place for a longtime. I hit rock bottom hard and was fourtuate to have enough of 'myself' left in there somewhere to get away from it.

You may not be able to stop her. She may not be able to stop herself.

Take care and if you want to chat more I am all ears.