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Originally Posted by ~Christina
Since he is over 18 he is an adult . You dont have a say in what his father does as your divorced .. Yes its sad that your ex is leaving everything to his new wife but he can do what ever he wants to.
Why did your ex tell you what his plans were with his monies and thing after he dies? Did you ask or did he offer the information?
I dont think you need to get involved honestly. Thats something your ex need to handle.
Maybe you should sit down with your son and show/ tell him once you die X monies and or life insurance etc will be given to him ... Maybe it will spark your son to ask his father what his plans are.
Good luck
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To be honest because of his change in attitude towards our son after he met this woman, I suspected that something like this might happen so I asked him. I was still shocked though when he said that he wasn't going to leave our son any share of his property at all, not even if his new partner died.
I haven't got anything left financially to give. I claim support because of a health condition. In the past I had a modest windfall which was given to our son for his education.
My ex did divulge to me that soon after they began the relationship his new partner said to him that if anything ever happened to him she planned to kill herself.
In addition in the past my father helped out my ex financially in order for him to a buy a property. I did mention this to my ex but he said it wasn't relevant.
I understand what you are saying, but I think that my ex's behaviour is wrong and I wonder if it's got anything to do with the fact that he might be angry towards me - our son does look like me.