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It will be so hard to change her.... you are aware of what she is doing...the only thing you really can do is figure out how to change your reaction to what she is doing. Figure out how to limit your time in these conversations. Maybe tell her to please let you finish your sentence (trying to finish people's sentences is is a bad habit in many people -I've been guilty of that as well). Sometimes it annoys me
when people are talking too slow - I have to constantly work on not being rude.
My brain just processes a lot faster than some others - it's not good or bad - it's the way it is - it's good to be aware of it.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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