I lose emotional connection too, and it makes everything feel like just a story someone else wrote and I'm just reading back. The times the emotion is connected, it almost feels too real. I have not yet figured out how to bring the emotional connection back at all times, but I'm learning that the memories are actual memories just playing as if the emotional and "video" tracks are not in sync (like dvd's or streaming video sometimes does)... maybe your t would have some more helpful ideas?