SecretGarden, I was so out-of-control enraged....definitely the current situation was very real...and merited my anger....but once I came to the realization that ''I haven't been heard way back....and I"m having the same experience now, of not being heard...'' I was able to separate the past rage from the present anger, and I was able to view the present situation realistically. This realization was the catalyst for my decision to terminate treatment with her.

Alexandra, I'm sorry about your pain..