I used to tell my ex husband all the time that "If you're the self proclaimed captain of this ship, and the ship SINKS, you can't blame me!!!" He was the same way. He would boss me around, and just because HIS PLAN was not well thought out, it was always MY fault because it didn't work out! But any changes I would make to his plan in an effort to MAKE his idiotic ideas work was out of the question! Men!!!!