How do people respond to you when you tell them that your depressed because your brain hates you? Cos there's something wrong abnormal with your brain functioning.. Do they react with care and compassion and understanding.. Doubt it. Is evryone else normal then? Do they have a better state of mind, attitude than you all the time? No ones perfect. We've all got strengths, qualities and weaknesses, flaws. Better to focus on the positives than the negatives. People don't tend to like admitting their faults, mistakes or tell you about their insecurities. A lot of people act roles in life, aren't their real self, and appear better than they are.. And are self centered only interested in their own lives, issues.