I'm struggling with similar issues. I'm the "good" girl who solves everybody else's problems. I never let on that I'm offended, I'm the one who's calm and positive in the midst of the chaos and it kills me that NO ONE CAN TELL IT'S ALL FAKE. I feel like none of my relationships are real because no one knows the real me, the depressed, broken me who's struggling just to get out of bed. How do you stop lying without driving everybody away?