My T was inconsistent in replying to my emails. It was very hurtful.

For a while, I thought he was purposefully not replying as sort of a "grand gesture of caring"... but the reality was that he either forgot about my email, or wasn't able to reply because he was too busy with other clients or his personal life. Unintentionally on his part, I had to face the painful truth that T meant the world to me, but I was just a small part of his. It was helpful in the long run