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Originally Posted by HazelGirl
I think that sometimes you need to realize that your own well-being is more important than your career.
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I'm willing to stand up for myself, assert my boundaries, and end the friendship. But I'm not willing to throw in the towel on a group I've spent 2 years building from the ground up, ruin my chances at tenure, or ruin the possibility of being hired at a better University (which would also get me away from her!) I've worked SO HARD to be a professor by 29; I'm not willing to ruin all of that because someone is bothering me. If it were a matter of life or death or something, yes, that would come before my career. But I won't let this woman ruin my career and I don't think just "stepping away" is the best way to stand up for myself.