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Hi. I'm back, with a little update.

So... Last week I started chatting with this girl at a online dating site.
I told her about my surgery. She invited me over her place today. Which was weird, since we hardly talked through both chat and phone.

I'll abstain myself from any judgement in terms of attractiveness. I'm just thankful for her patience.

Well, what can I say? It was ok. I mean... As I said before, the mechanical aspect was surprisingly good. I know it might sound strange to you but, for the first time ever, I felt my penis was working as it is meant to work naturaly. The first attempot, I came to quickly, before finding the vagina (yes, I tend to get nervous when I try to stick it by myself). But after a while, while talking about random stuff, I started to get hard, out of the blue, and even harder than minutes ago. She sat over me and rode me. And that was when I felt really ok. Having a circumcised penis definitely feels better than suffering from phimosis, needless to say.

I guess it could have felt more intense, though. But there was no romantic vibe whatsoever involved, so... The experience was kind of devoid from emotions, except for those related to my complex and issues surrounding my penis. I defeated one of my biggest fears, and I'm happy for that, but it had nothing to do with having intimacy with this girl.

On the other hand, it's not that I feel guilty, but I feel kind of crappy for having had sex just to check if my penis could do better than before the operation. It was like using a person for my own benefit. It's something that I wouldn't do again.

Now, at least, I feel more relieved. I don't suffer from ED anymore (I came to soon the first time, yes, but it was due only to my own anxiety), my erections are harder and last longer, and I don't hurt as I expected: actually, my penis feels awesome!

I think it's time to move on, finally. From here on out, I shouldn't worry about my penis again. Maybe this sounds so obvious, too, but today I caught a glimpse of how things really are. I mean... Penetration in and on itself is no big deal. It's not the most relevant aspect to sex. I don't regret what I did this afternoon, but I realized how important it's to have a connection with the other person. And kissing and hugging and caressing are way more important than I thought. Not to mention sharing something special, outside the bed.

So, now I'm tired and I need some sleep. I have a lot in my mind now to process, and I'm not able yet to put it in words.

Please, if you're still there, I'd like to share with all of you some of the thoughts that might pop up anytime soon.

Thank you for reading.
And thanks to Big Mama and hamster-bamster for their hugs!
I haven't noticed that feature until now!