Did she apologize for choking you? She was completely out of line, and you should be commended for your restraint. I would have lashed out like a madwoman to get her off me.

Please get counseling and please don't take all the blame because you are the male. She turned it physical for no good reason. Battered spouses are not all female.

Good luck to you both!

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