hey. i found a wiki article... yeah... i guess my t really is into this. i guess that is why he tells me stuff. i... ignore it. don't like it :-(. but i guess what i'm doing... is rejecting him :-(. dammit. and... i do do that. reject people. mostly 'cause i figure they will reject me. i figure he needs to retain a distance from me in order to remain non-judgemental. in order to care. so... i don't like it when he tells me stuff. damn.

with respect to boundary violations... hindsight is a wonderful thing, huh. boundary crossings tend to be interpreted as boundary violations in hindsight once it is clear a boundary violation has occurred.

yeah, you are makin sense.