Right now focus on finding a new home. Focus on decorating and how you will make it a place of peace for you.
Delete him and anyone that he knows off your Facebook. Do not answer his call or a text no matter what it says.. If you can't bear to not answer him, have your # changed Simple solution to handing his calls/texts. Call your phone carrier and tell them you need it changed because someone is stalking you .. they will do it for free.
You keep repeating you cant get over him/stop loving him thats typical thinking from women that are/have been abused .. Ok! yes its hard but right now your allowing him a huge amount of space in your head. The only way your going to get over him is to look to the future and focus on that
not your ugly past with him. You deserve love respect and caring.. Things he
never gave you.
I wish you well