Sorry you're feeling down. I can relate. I've messed up appointment times repeatedly (NOT like non-depressed me) and forgotten to pick my kids up from school multiple times. I never think about dinner prep until 30 minutes after everyone in the house is starving because I've lost the ability to plan ahead. I forget to return phone calls and emails and pay bills and get the oil changed in my car until there's a crisis...etc. ad infinitum... Perhaps we AREN'T as incapable as we feel, but depression sure makes it feel like we are. You're not alone.