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Originally Posted by StressedMess
Snapping and resorting to violence as an outlet for anger is much easier than recognizing the feeling, acknowledging it, breathing through it, and willing it to go away. If you have no experience it is even harder to learn rather than react.
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Absolutely, I think it's all too easy to lash out
before thinking of the consequences.
This is my first serious relationship and girlfriend so it makes it even harder for me and I truly love her still despite what she did to me.
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Originally Posted by StressedMess
I'm genuinely sorry you two have had this experience, and I hope that she will be willing to seek help before her violence becomes normal behavior for her.
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She's too stubborn to want to get some help, she doesn't even think she did anything wrong for when she choked me.
She has hit our puppy dog before too because he would playfully nip and she belted him on the nose.
