In the past when I've felt like self harming at work I gave my box cutter, that I have to use at work, to a coworker. But she quit several months ago. Recently I've asked someone else for help and was talking to my T about it. I told my t I knew excoworker would understand self harm but I'm not sure if this other person does. My T wanted to know why she understood and asked "Was/is she a cutter?"[emoji15]. I was a little shocked. It sounds so insensitive. He knows I cut so is that how he thinks about me? I don't know if I should bring it up or I'm just being too sensitive.