I've had the same problem myself. I've really only had two good friends my whole life, and that's just been recently, and they moved away a few years ago, which has made me extra depressed. I'm really outgoing, and can make friends anywhere, but it seems like people just end up not wanting to make the effort to be friends with me. I really believe that it's me. I don't know what else ito can be. I know that I have BPD, but does that automatically make people not like you? I'm still a kind, caring, honest, loyal friend. And, I really try to keep my insecurities hidden from people. I have a my therapy appt, I'll be back.