You will have to take yourself away from your mom. If you have a job, start saving your money. If you are unemployed, get a job, even if you have to put up notes offering to clean people's houses. Once you have some money of your own, you will have some control of your life.

If you are doing all kinds of chores in the home where you are now, tell yourself that you could be doing those same chores somewhere else for people who would pay you.