its kind of ironic cause I almost have the same issue except I have Rapid cyle bipolar and I have been showing signs of having autism as well.

my boyfriend also does the whole I have not gone to a therapist in years and I don't see why you need help thing...as well going to a therapist is a crutch.

the only thing he ironically does not view as such is my taking meds for my issues.

I will say after a while he did start shutting up about things...and realizing i need a therapist. Probably cause the place I am dealing with has a really strict policy on things there and I have had to go without for a while now.

and frankly having no therapist at all for me when I have the kinds of issues I do is far worse idea then anything...