well my dad was physically abusive to me and my siblings sometimes. then he died when i was 10. i hate talking about what he did to us with my T bc i feel extreme guilt and i dont want ppl to think my dad was a bad person. i didnt even consider it abuse until i told T and he said it was. he is always saying he feels very sad about my childhood. he even said that the kind of childhood i had is what breeds sociopaths. i thought that was shocking. im not a sociopath and he wasnt saying i was, he was saying it is amazing that i am so resilient and made it through everything without developing a personality disorder like that. but yeah i try to minimize things that happened to me while T thinks they are traumatic