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Originally Posted by ChipperMonkey
If she can't admit that what she did was wrong yet blames you and is holding that punch over your head, I think its time to take a breather. I don't think there was anything wrong in what you did given that if you didn't fight back you may very well be dead right now.....has that thought crossed your mind?
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Yes, I have thought that if I hadn't have fought back then as you say I would have been dead or seriously injured.
I lashed out, out of human instinct just like anyone would do if they were being attacked.
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Originally Posted by ChipperMonkey
Her actions could have killed you if you didn't fight back! Yes, it was right of you to apologize in an effort to patch things up between the two of you, but if she can't own up to her end of what happened, its time to say goodbye to her.
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That's what I can't understand about her, why she can't see or accept that she is at fault here - it's just not like her, she is usually a pleasant & caring girl but this is so very strange of her to completely change in the way she is behaving now.
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In my experience, these types of people take no responsibility for anything and their actions are always justified by what the other person has done. That is, everyone else is to blame.
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Yes, I think that she is manipulating me and because I've apologised to her, she thinks that gives her the right to twist things and now turn the blame onto me whilst turning a blind eye to her own behaviour.
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How well have you really gotten to know her?
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Fairly well over the 2yrs. I mean we haven't lived together, but we've stayed at hotels together (ok that's not quite the same thing) but I felt I knew her really well.
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Originally Posted by ChipperMonkey
If you just laid there like a wet rag and she did choke you to death, she could be facing murder charges right now. Seriously.
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Absolutely, she should be thanking me that I did fight back.